Question:
Is Judaism an all-or-nothing deal? I can't see myself ever becoming religious, but I have started to incorporate Jewish spirituality into my life. If I get more involved in Judaism, will I have to change my entire lifestyle? Is there no grey area in between being totally religious and being totally secular?
Answer:
Welcome to the grey area ? the world of Jewish souls. It's a world where there are people who attend services every week but don't consider themselves religious, and there are people who are no longer on speaking terms with G-d, but would cringe at being called secular. The religious/secular divide is completely foreign to Judaism. In fact, in ancient Hebrew there are no words to describe someone as either "religious" or "secular". Those terms just don't work for Jews.
Rather than boxing people into religious or secular, the Jewish view differentiates between two other categories: those who are growing in their spiritual life, and those who aren't. We are either souls alive, or souls asleep.
In matters of the soul, more important than how high you have reached is how far you have moved. And you'd be surprised; someone who may look very holy could actually be completely stagnant in this struggle, and someone who you may have labeled as secular is in fact a spiritual hero.
One person may pray every day, while another prays only once a week. But the first prayed every day all his life, while the second guy never prayed before at all. One has taken a step forward, while the other is just treading water. Who is achieving more?
In truth, to compare one person's spiritual level to someone else's is impossible and pointless. But we do have to compare our own spiritual level today to what we were yesterday. Whether we pray daily, weekly, or not at all, we each have to ask ourselves: Compared to this time last year, am I a more refined, more sensitive, more spiritually aware person? Am I on the way up in my soul development, on the way down, or just cruising? What is my next challenge, my next step to becoming a more divine person?
Forget about becoming religious. Just become a soul alive, climbing upwards in that shifting grey area, where my today is higher than my yesterday, and tomorrow will be even better.
Is Judaism an all-or-nothing deal? I can't see myself ever becoming religious, but I have started to incorporate Jewish spirituality into my life. If I get more involved in Judaism, will I have to change my entire lifestyle? Is there no grey area in between being totally religious and being totally secular?
Answer:
Welcome to the grey area ? the world of Jewish souls. It's a world where there are people who attend services every week but don't consider themselves religious, and there are people who are no longer on speaking terms with G-d, but would cringe at being called secular. The religious/secular divide is completely foreign to Judaism. In fact, in ancient Hebrew there are no words to describe someone as either "religious" or "secular". Those terms just don't work for Jews.
Rather than boxing people into religious or secular, the Jewish view differentiates between two other categories: those who are growing in their spiritual life, and those who aren't. We are either souls alive, or souls asleep.
In matters of the soul, more important than how high you have reached is how far you have moved. And you'd be surprised; someone who may look very holy could actually be completely stagnant in this struggle, and someone who you may have labeled as secular is in fact a spiritual hero.
One person may pray every day, while another prays only once a week. But the first prayed every day all his life, while the second guy never prayed before at all. One has taken a step forward, while the other is just treading water. Who is achieving more?
In truth, to compare one person's spiritual level to someone else's is impossible and pointless. But we do have to compare our own spiritual level today to what we were yesterday. Whether we pray daily, weekly, or not at all, we each have to ask ourselves: Compared to this time last year, am I a more refined, more sensitive, more spiritually aware person? Am I on the way up in my soul development, on the way down, or just cruising? What is my next challenge, my next step to becoming a more divine person?
Forget about becoming religious. Just become a soul alive, climbing upwards in that shifting grey area, where my today is higher than my yesterday, and tomorrow will be even better.