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      by David Wilder
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      David Wilder was born in New Jersey in the USA in 1954, and graduated from Case Western Reserve University with a BA in History and teacher certification in 1976. He spent 1974-75 in Jerusalem at the Hebrew University and returned to Israel upon graduation.

      For over eighteen years David Wilder has worked with the Jewish Community of Hebron. He is the English spokesman for the community, granting newspaper, television and radio interviews internationally. He initiated the Hebron internet project, including email lists of over 15,000 subscribers who receive regular news and commentaries from Hebron in English and Hebrew. David is responsible and continues to update the Hebron web sites, portraying various facets of Hebron, utilizing text, audio, video and pictures. He conducts tours of Hebron's Jewish Community and occasionally travels abroad, speaking at Hebron functions.

      David Wilder is married to Ora, a 'Sabra,' for 33 years. They lived in Kiryat Arba for 17 years and have resided at Beit Hadassah in Hebron for the past 14 years. They have seven children and many grandchildren.

      Links to sites David recommends:
      www.davidwilder.net
      www.hebron.com (English)
      www.hebron.org.il (Hebrew)
      www.machpela.com
      www.ohrshlomo.org (Hebrew)
      www.ohrshalom.net (Hebrew)
      www.womeningreen.org
      www.zoa.org
      (others to be added)


      Nissan 1, 5768, 4/6/2008

      The Gabbai



      Yaamod, 57200148! ... Shloimele Shloimele! Is it really you?"
      The gabbai's eyes moved rapidly across the familiar faces of the men packed
      into shul on this sunny Shabbos morning.

      Shloime Kaufman, the gabbai, had been going through this routine for the
      past twenty years, looking out over the congregation and at his many friends
      and neighbors a world of warm-hearted people with whom he shared his life.
      Choosing a few each week for aliyos was a job that came with its
      difficulties, but it also gave him the weekly opportunity to count these
      blessings. This secure, contented world in which he found himself was all
      the more precious because, by any law of logic or probability, it should
      never have come into existence.

      The world Mr. Kaufman had known as a child and young man in Poland had been
      erased. It had collapsed all around him, snuffing out the lives of his loved
      ones. At the time, he had thought that surely the few survivors who managed
      to emerge from the rubble alive would be left with nothing no yeshivos, no
      shuls, no gedolim to guide them. And yet, here he was, the grandfather of a
      beautiful, Torah-observant family, the gabbai of a thriving shul, surrounded
      by friends and family. Better to relish the miracle of the present than
      think too much about the searing pain of the past.

      Mr. Kaufman scanned the rows of men as the Torah was removed from the ark.
      His eyes rested upon an unfamiliar face, a man about his own age with a
      short grey beard. He hadn't seen him in shul before. He surmised that he
      must be a guest. But there was something very familiar about this face.

      Suddenly, the man's features and expression jarred loose a powerful flash of
      recognition in Mr. Kaufman's mind. It was Menachem Reiner, his closest
      childhood friend. It was Menachem, the boy with whom he had grown up in
      their small Polish shtetl, with whom he had attended yeshivah in Bialystock.
      It was Menachem, the young man to whom he had clung, and who had clung to
      him, as they began their cattle-car journey into the fearsome blackness of
      Auschwitz . They had promised each other to stick together, they had given
      each other courage and hope. Bearing the numbers the Nazis had tattooed on
      their arms, they had found in each other the strength to hold onto their
      humanity and resist becoming only numbers. They had vowed to help each other
      survive, both in body and soul.

      And they did survive, Boruch Hashem. But when the war ended, each went his
      own way, eager to begin anew. For sanity's sake, they each tucked the past
      away into a deep, locked box that would be opened only on rare occasions.
      Menachem had settled in Israel , and Shloime Kaufman had obtained a visa for
      America .

      Consumed with creating a future and healing the wounds of the past, they had
      lost touch with each other. That was forty-two years ago. Now, with
      unbelieving eyes and trembling hands, Mr. Kaufman beheld the unmistakable
      face of his friend once again. Shlomie decided in his mind: Menachem Reiner
      would get the sixth aliyah.

      As the Torah reading began, the gabbai felt as if his heart could not be
      contained in his chest. He wanted to leap across the rows of men and fall
      upon his friend in a mighty embrace. "This must be how Yosef felt when he
      finally saw his brother Binyamin," he thought to himself. "All these years!"
      Nevertheless, he clamped a tight lid on his emotions and performed his duty,
      calling up each aliyah with the traditional chant of "Ya'amod" followed by
      the honoree's Hebrew name. By the fifth aliyah, however, beads of sweat were
      sparkling on his forehead and tears were welling up in his eyes. He prayed
      that when the time came to call up number six, his voice would be able to
      break free of his tight throat.

      There was no need to ask Menachem his name because he could never forget
      Menachem ben Yehoshua. For the first time, he began to wonder how would
      Menachem react when they came face to face? It was time to call him up, but
      Mr. Kaufman could not open his mouth. There were no words fit for this
      moment. All the suffering locked away in that figurative box was now out in
      the open, laid out before his eyes, and it was too much to bear.

      The congregation began murmuring and looking toward Mr. Kaufman, fearing
      that the pale, trembling man was becoming ill. A deep cry rose up inside the
      gabbai a cry to Hashem that contained in its broken sound all of His
      children's cries of anguish. Mr. Kaufman turned in the direction of his
      friend and at last found his voice. "Yaamod, 57200148!" he called.

      The baffled men in the shul did not understand what had happened. What was
      this number? What had become of Mr. Kaufman? But in the back of the room,
      one man understood completely. The number was Menachem's number, tattooed on
      his arm as a lifetime reminder of the darkest period of Jewish history, the
      epic tragedy of his people which he had witnessed with his own eyes.

      The entire shul sat in stony silence as Menachem moved slowly toward the
      bimah. Finally, as they saw him approaching his long-lost brother, they
      understood the scene that was unfolding in front of them. Menachem needed no
      introduction. With tears coursing down his face, he cried out, "Shloimele!
      Shloimele! Is it really you?" "Yes, Menachem, it's really me!" Mr. Kaufman
      answered, embracing his friend. They wept into each other's shoulders,
      rocking gently. "Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay," Mr. Kaufman breathed. Words were
      powerless to carry his chaotic emotions.

      The entire shul sat spellbound, witnessing a moment that could have melted a
      heart made of iron. As these two men stood together, living witnesses to the
      Jewish people's miraculous survival, it seemed that the Heavens had opened
      up to declare, through them, that Hashem would never forsake His people. Am
      Yisrael Chai! The Jewish nation is alive, and Torah has been rebuilt in
      America .

      The Holocaust survivors who came to America planted the seeds, and it is up
      to us to reap the fruits of their labor and continue their legacy. (From,
      Stories for the Jewish Heart - Book 2 R. Binyomin Pruzansky)
      (Thanks to Jack L. for emailing me this)