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      Batya Medad made aliya from New York to Israel in 1970 and has been living in Shiloh since 1981. Recently she began organizing women's visits to Tel Shiloh for Psalms and prayers. (For more information, please email her.)  Batya is a newspaper and magazine columnist, a veteran jblogger and recently stopped EFL teaching.  She's also a wife, mother, grandmother, photographer and HolyLand hitchhiker, always seeing things from her own very unique perspective. For more of Batya's writings and photos, check out:

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      Iyar 25, 5769, 5/19/2009

      What Really Happened When Bibi Met Obama?


      There's nothing like Dry Bones to say things so simply and clearly.
       
      The reports about the Bibi-Obama meeting are mixed. And even more confusing, it seems like everyone has interpreted it according to his/her wishes and fears. We all could have written our reactions in advance.
       
      MK Dr. Arieh Eldad, The Jerusalem Post's David Horowitz, The New York Times, Arlene Kushner... and please add your own.


      Iyar 23, 5769, 5/17/2009

      Now's The Time


      It's human nature to put things off.  Thank G-d, we're not in charge of things. G-d created us a world with a clock, always ticking.  It never needs winding up or new batteries.  It began before man was created.  We just hop on for our מאה עשרים me'ah esrim, one-hundred and twenty years.  Do we just want to fiddle?

      I'm glad that my husband and I made aliyah young, just weeks after our wedding.  It would only have gotten harder if we had delayed it.  You may rightly complain that I toot my horn a bit too much.

      And if you're already in Israel, maybe you're looking for something special?

      Next Sunday, May 24, is Rosh Chodesh Sivan, and we'll be having our monthly Women's Prayers at Tel Shiloh.  G-d willing, we'll be there at 9:30am.

       

      You can visit Tel Shiloh other times.  For more information email telshilo@gmail.com

      And if you're looking for something to do indoors, to stay out of the heat, or snow if you're in Calgary, read the latest Havel Havelim, the weekly "magazine" of posts from Jewish Bloggers.  It can also be found here.



      Iyar 22, 5769, 5/16/2009

      If You're Going To "Relocate," Then Make Aliyah!


      It's that time of the year, again, the OU is promoting "stay in America and join one of our emerging communities."
      Don't wait for the Moshiach; you may miss the boat!
       
      I guess things haven't changed all that much since I was a member (and chapter, regional and national officer) in the OU's NCSY in the mid-1960's. Aliyah wasn't in our lexicon. I first heard the term when my parents and Aunt Sadie, in a panic over my attempts to become religious, arranged for me to attend a USY Shabbaton in the East Midwood Jewish Center, Brooklyn, NY.
       
      Yes, today the OU does have its landmark Israel Center in Jerusalem, but the activities are solely for those already in Israel and not to encourage aliyah by those in the United States and Canada. Diaspora rabbis rationalize and excuse their staying in chutz l'Aretz on their being needed to help the Jews there. But if that was totally true, they'd be happy to close down non-functioning Jewish communities, since then there would be less reasons to stay abroad.
       
      The truth is that the OU like any business, needs to grow constantly or it dies. The OU, like all of the massive Jewish organizations whether Orthodox, Reform, Chareidi, Reconstructionist, Conservative or open to all like Hadassa, employ many people and must keep the money flowing in.
       
      I'm not going to say that life here in Israel is always easy and effortless, but no place is. And just like I've written on many occasions that the IDF would be more Jewish with more Torah observant soldiers, Israel would be better the more Jews we have here. We each play our role and vote with our feet.
       
      We need you now! Don't wait for the Moshiach; you may miss the boat!
       


      Iyar 20, 5769, 5/14/2009

      What Was The Total Price Of The Pope's Visit?


      Israel certainly rolled out the red carpet for this pope, clearing many of Jerusalem's streets for hours every day. So when you're trying to calculate the price of the visit for us, you have to go well beyond the primary, secondary and even tertiary costs. I'll leave out the political price we'll pay, since he definitely towed the Pseudistinian line. I'll try to list the various expenses:
      • First of all, all of the security guards putting in extra hours.
      • Don't forget the price of all the receptions, food and gifts.
      • The planning and then advertising of road closures and changes in public transportation. I wouldn't be surprised if people got paid overtime to work on it.
      • Extra travel time for those inconvenienced. And extra payments to babysitters, since everything took longer.
      • Businesses and museums which lost customers for days on end, including Lag B'Omer, a school vacation day.
      • Doctors and other professionals whose patients and clients couldn't make their appointments, and those who were billed even though they tried to come and didn't.

      That's just a start. What would you add? Do you have a shekel/aggorot, dollar/cents estimate?

      And about security, remember that Pope John Paul II was shot at the Vatican, proving that most tragedies, accidents and deaths happen close to home.



      Iyar 19, 5769, 5/13/2009

      Hachnasat Orchim, Welcoming Guests


      As I write this the circus surrounding the catholic pope’s visit to Israel is at the peak of hysteria. I believe that all Jews, especially Israelis, whether “officially” religious or not, know the importance of the mitzvah of Hachnasat Orchim, Welcoming Guests.

      So, if that’s so, why are so many of us appalled, embarrassed and worse at the enthusiastic welcome the State of Israel and its media have granted the goyishe religious leader?

      We’re taught that the great Avraham Avinu, Our Forefather Abraham, even got up on the third day after his Brit Milah, circumcision, to welcome some strangers trudging by his tent.

      So isn’t the generous reception of the pope comparable? My answer is “no,” plain and simple. Let’s stay in Bereishit, Genesis, and compare Avraham’s Hachnasat Orchim with Lot’s.

      Avraham saw three unexpected strangers, hot, dehydrated exhausted. Instinctively, mindless of his own pain, he ran to help them.

      וַיֵּרָא אֵלָיו יְהוָה, בְּאֵלֹנֵי מַמְרֵא; וְהוּא יֹשֵׁב פֶּתַח-הָאֹהֶל, כְּחֹם הַיּוֹם. 1 And the LORD appeared unto him by the terebinths of Mamre, as he sat in the tent door in the heat of the day; ב וַיִּשָּׂא עֵינָיו, וַיַּרְא, וְהִנֵּה שְׁלֹשָׁה אֲנָשִׁים, נִצָּבִים עָלָיו; וַיַּרְא, וַיָּרָץ לִקְרָאתָם מִפֶּתַח הָאֹהֶל, וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ, אָרְצָה. 2 and he lifted up his eyes and looked, and, lo, three men stood over against him; and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent door, and bowed down to the earth, ג וַיֹּאמַר: אֲדֹנָי, אִם-נָא מָצָאתִי חֵן בְּעֵינֶיךָ--אַל-נָא תַעֲבֹר, מֵעַל עַבְדֶּךָ. 3 and said: 'My lord, if now I have found favour in thy sight, pass not away, I pray thee, from thy servant. ד יֻקַּח-נָא מְעַט-מַיִם, וְרַחֲצוּ רַגְלֵיכֶם; וְהִשָּׁעֲנוּ, תַּחַת הָעֵץ. 4 Let now a little water be fetched, and wash your feet, and recline yourselves under the tree.

      The pope did not arrive as an exhausted unexpected traveler. The State of Israel has been begging him to visit for years, and Israel has given all sorts of gifts to the pope. “Peres gave him two gifts: a nano-Bible – the entire 24 books of the Bible, from Genesis to Chronicles, written on a chip no bigger than a grain of sand - and a painting of a Menorah (candelabrum). Arutz 7,” but although I googled, searching everywhere, I found no reference to any gifts from the pope.

      Avraham’s guests were angels, disguised as wanderers, and they had a special gift for Avraham and Sarah, a promise from G-d that they would have a biological son, who would carry on their religion and inherit the leadership.

      Israel’s behavior towards the pope reminds me more of Lot’s version of Hachnasat Orchim.

      Genesis Chapter 19 א וַיָּבֹאוּ שְׁנֵי הַמַּלְאָכִים סְדֹמָה, בָּעֶרֶב, וְלוֹט, יֹשֵׁב בְּשַׁעַר-סְדֹם; וַיַּרְא-לוֹט וַיָּקָם לִקְרָאתָם, וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ אַפַּיִם אָרְצָה. 1 And the two angels came to Sodom at even; and Lot sat in the gate of Sodom; and Lot saw them, and rose up to meet them; and he fell down on his face to the earth; ב וַיֹּאמֶר הִנֶּה נָּא-אֲדֹנַי, סוּרוּ נָא אֶל-בֵּית עַבְדְּכֶם וְלִינוּ וְרַחֲצוּ רַגְלֵיכֶם, וְהִשְׁכַּמְתֶּם, וַהֲלַכְתֶּם לְדַרְכְּכֶם; וַיֹּאמְרוּ לֹּא, כִּי בָרְחוֹב נָלִין. 2 and he said: 'Behold now, my lords, turn aside, I pray you, into your servant's house, and tarry all night, and wash your feet, and ye shall rise up early, and go on your way.' And they said: 'Nay; but we will abide in the broad place all night.' ג וַיִּפְצַר-בָּם מְאֹד--וַיָּסֻרוּ אֵלָיו, וַיָּבֹאוּ אֶל-בֵּיתוֹ; וַיַּעַשׂ לָהֶם מִשְׁתֶּה, וּמַצּוֹת אָפָה וַיֹּאכֵלוּ. 3 And he urged them greatly; and they turned in unto him, and entered into his house; and he made them a feast, and did bake unleavened bread, and they did eat. ד טֶרֶם, יִשְׁכָּבוּ, וְאַנְשֵׁי הָעִיר אַנְשֵׁי סְדֹם נָסַבּוּ עַל-הַבַּיִת, מִנַּעַר וְעַד-זָקֵן: כָּל-הָעָם, מִקָּצֶה. 4 But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both young and old, all the people from every quarter. ה וַיִּקְרְאוּ אֶל-לוֹט וַיֹּאמְרוּ לוֹ, אַיֵּה הָאֲנָשִׁים אֲשֶׁר-בָּאוּ אֵלֶיךָ הַלָּיְלָה; הוֹצִיאֵם אֵלֵינוּ, וְנֵדְעָה אֹתָם. 5 And they called unto Lot, and said unto him: 'Where are the men that came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them.' ו וַיֵּצֵא אֲלֵהֶם לוֹט, הַפֶּתְחָה; וְהַדֶּלֶת, סָגַר אַחֲרָיו. 6 And Lot went out unto them to the door, and shut the door after him. ז וַיֹּאמַר: אַל-נָא אַחַי, תָּרֵעוּ. 7 And he said: 'I pray you, my brethren, do not so wickedly. ח הִנֵּה-נָא לִי שְׁתֵּי בָנוֹת, אֲשֶׁר לֹא-יָדְעוּ אִישׁ--אוֹצִיאָה-נָּא אֶתְהֶן אֲלֵיכֶם, וַעֲשׂוּ לָהֶן כַּטּוֹב בְּעֵינֵיכֶם; רַק לָאֲנָשִׁים הָאֵל, אַל-תַּעֲשׂוּ דָבָר, כִּי-עַל-כֵּן בָּאוּ, בְּצֵל קֹרָתִי. 8 Behold now, I have two daughters that have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes; only unto these men do nothing; forasmuch as they are come under the shadow of my roof.'

      It’s more like “the road to hell is paved with good intentions.” Lot tried to be like Abraham, but when things became difficult, he offered his virgin daughters to pacify the attackers. Those were the same daughters who later got him drunk and then seduced him when he was in a drunken stupor, so that they would have children and the world wouldn’t die out. They too paved their road to hell with good intentions.

      That’s the best way of describing the political leadership of the State of Israel, followers of Lot and not Abraham. And anyone who must travel in Jerusalem can also describe all the roadwork as Hell, paved with good intentions.

      And talking of roads, we must not give up.

      Kall ha’olam kulo, gesher tzar me’od,
      The entire world is nothing but a narrow bridge,
      and we must never fear,
      never!